Tuesday, April 27, 2010

...less words...

I have lots to write down about this week...but no motivation nor energy to actually sit down today and start...

So ill just end it today...short and sweet...

Just wanted to say...to the people around me...

I hope you find your answers..and I hope you make a good decision...I may or may not be there...
You can always find problems with any decision you make...but you cant let that stop you...Sometimes our best decisions are the ones that dont make any sense at all...


You are the person who has to decide.
Whether you'll do it or toss it aside; you are the person who makes up
your mind. Whether you'll lead or will linger behind. Whether you'll try
for the goal that's afar. Or just be contented to stay where you are.

Monday, April 19, 2010

Let it go...


We were evidently short for staff today...so I was actually caught up with a lot of things at the start of the day...
Its amazing how your mind is occupied when you are busy doing something or the other...

As the day progressed...the load reduced...and the headache from summer cold began to rise...and I dripped into the sick mode...

As i sat there...in the cabin...I called him up...and it sank in...
About how Shafi has lost the one he held the most dearest...and how difficult it is for him right now...at this point to still not loose grip of himself and keep sane...
I realised that the whole point of going after something that was never his...was...literally what he said it was...
"I just want to meet her one last time..."

It is that simple and straight sometimes...and how much ever life will be unfair...one thing never changes...No one replaces you in anyones life...and that enough is a thing to smile about...

I am always confused about these things...I mean...what exactly is love...if it is not this exact thing...

Love is not the fear of letting someone go...
but also the power within you to let someone go...


What matters are those aimless conversations...and words that went unsaid...also the things that were simply understood...and the time you spent...and also the times you did not spend...and the feeling that even when you are not around...you are still there....

True Story.

Thursday, April 15, 2010

..Better Together..


There's no combination of words
I could put on the back of a postcard
No song that I could sing
But I can try for your heart,
our dreams, and they are made out of real things
like a shoebox of photographs
with sepia-toned loving
Love is the answer
at least for most of the questions in my heart, like
Why are we here? And where do we go?
And how come it's so hard?
It's not always easy and
sometimes life can be deceiving
I'll tell you one thing, it's always better when we're together

Mmmm, It's always better when we're together
Yeah we'll look at the stars and we're together
Well, it's always better when we're together
Yeah it's always better when we're together

And all of these moments
just might find their way into my dreams tonight,
But I know that they’ll be gone
when the morning light sings
and brings new things
for tomorrow night you see
that they’ll be gone too,
too many things I have to do
But if all of these dreams might find their way
into my day to day scene
I'd be under the impression
i was somewhere in between
With only two,
Just me and you,
Not so many things we got to do
or places we got to be
We'll sit beneath the mango tree, now,

Yeah It's always better when we're together
Mmmm, we're somewhere in between together
Well, it's always better when we're together
Yeah, it's always better when we're together

[MmmMmmmmMmm, Mmm MMmmM]

I believe in memories
they look so, so pretty when I sleep
Hey now, and when I wake up,
you look so pretty sleeping next to me
But there is not enough time,
There is no, no song I could sing
and there is no combination of words I could say
but I will still tell you one thing
We're Better together

Sunday, April 11, 2010

and...Im getting married soon...!

I cant help but think and only reconfirm the fact that whatever is happening in Life right now...the moments that pass by...are all meant to be this way....

The place you are...the people you are with...the things that have happened to you...and the things that are still to come...EVERYTHING is written...

Three friends at Cafe Coffee Day sit and wonder if things were different and if some choices had messed up here and there...would they have ever sat there like that...would they even know each other...

I know that everyone gets this feeling at some point or other when you think about relationships around you...

But my point here is short and sweet...

Even if you are planning something...you will still have...by the end of the day...only the people who are meant to stay...around you...

There are levels to friendship...but if you think that level is decided by you...you are wrong...

I am around you for a reason...and no one can replace me...

(No wonder...these days... people realise it only AFTER im gone away from their lives...)


Well People Keep Repeating, that you will never fall in love. When everyone keeps retreating, but you can't seem to get enough. Let my love open the door, let my love open the door, let my love open the door to your heart.


But I know why are you reading this post...you wanna know more abt the blog title...

So yeahh...parents have given their deadline...(now I seriously know how girls feel abt it mann...!)

Mommy dearest : "You either tell us whom you wanna get married to...if you are in a relationship with someone...that makes my job easier...else I really want you married by June next year max...so I start searchin by August..."


I wonder if that was some sort of a dhamki I should be afraid of...and just tell her a girls name to save her the whole gruesome trouble of finding a girl for me...(seems an impossible task to her anyways...she told me later...)

So yeah...I guess...Its time to get tied down...

Married...me...her...ummm....weird....too fast...

Sunday, April 04, 2010

someone elses Wife...!

The last one week has been pretty fast...not hectic.... (I dont qualify for people who really "work"....so hectic is not a word i think i am qualified to use...)...but fast...

We give so much pressure on the financial year ending that all people are bothered about...is... where is the money coming from...
Strange how much importance MONEY has in our lives...that everything else takes a back seat...

Anyway...the year ended well...not that it makes any specific difference to my life right now...but its worth a mention...

And yes...there was a party...there was an aimless laughter...and a walk on the roads laughing it out even more...
and then there was shopping...and even more shopping...
CARD swiping in and out...as if it was my sword of honour...to save my land from the evil...
....and also there was this movie called Clash Of the Titans...from where the "swiping of the sword" analogy came from...

Its good that the day ends in a smile...

Me and Shobhit were talking today...and I told him about how important it is to have some clue about whether the person you like equally liking you back...some hint...else it just screws things up...and he pointed out a nice thing...that...whether the person likes u back or not...you still share the same feelings...so why not just be...and accept the fact...
It works both ways....you give people who love you a chance...and expect people you love to love you back...

Anyway...that topic came up from all the engagements and marriages happening around...its as if thers a RACE going on....on who will be the FIRST to post couple pics on FACEBOOK...
(...btw...and a big "woooohooo" to the people who won already!)

But yeah...People are getting married Prasad...accept it...your friend will now be someone elses Wife/Husband...

Its still ok with guys...but it gets soo awkward with your girl friends...I mean....its like..."I know her better than you dude...so back off!!"

Shobhit: "okk...whom exactly are you worried about getting married...coz you are not sayin this for all your girl friends who are getting married...be specific..."
Me: " I do not know...but its just bloodyy bothering me right now...!"

And then we slurpped on our pizzas...and got into the typical "guy-thinking" mode...
(...and Prasad now thinks of a solution of how he can avoid his close friends from becoming someone elses wife...!)

The great business of life is to be, to do, to do without, and to depart.
-Viscount Morley
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