Thursday, December 25, 2008

The season where evry1 wants to get married...!

Have you noticed the number of people getting married these days...its as if the world is suddenly coming to an end and all the people decided to enter marital life in a rush before they die!

I have actually lost count of the number of wedding invitations coming to our place everyday...and considering my own elder brothers wedding is to be in February...it all seems....well... wierd!!

School friends....college friends...buddies...suddenly...are now people who are starting a family!

Well...thats life i guess...every day is a new surprise...

The wonder though...that all the people who marry...each one of them....never expects that he/she will be in the 46% of the couples whose marriages eventually failed over a period of time...
Bad thing to expect when you are getting married but still...but knowing this...If you still go ahead with it...mannn....that girl/boy must be really worth it eh!

Looking at me and looking at people around...I wish relationships were a bit easier...they are in a way...always...but we always have to find atleast one small reason (tiny winy reason may it be!) to make it complicated...
Of course....how else will you add that "masala" to your life...

Come to think of it...If i met a girl...i approached her...we became friends...i realised i love her...she feels the same...and there you go...lifes a bliss...there are flowers and dried leaves falling from god knws where...and suddenly...in the middle of the day...i burst out into a romantic song...!

I mean...if it was always this simple...what would be the fun in it???
Its like a Karan Johar movie...which just started and ended its story in the trailor!!
(OMG...that would be real sadd...wont it!)

So...the conclusion here will be... MAKE A LOVE STORY THAT INSPIRES KARAN JOHAR TO MAKE A MOVIE OUT OF!
Full on emotions...drama...romance...fun...!
~ LOL ~
(Godd...i cant believe i jut wrote that! ill ignore the above lines everytime i read this blog...and if someone does ask... im in complete denail that i wrote it!)

How many times in your life...have you seen a person, Everytime you meet someone interesting , and said..."What will it be like being in a relationship with this person?"
How much ever you deny it...If you are single...i guarantee you do it every single time..conciously or subconciously...!

The point here is...there are many people in your life...I only wished the equation to relationships was a bit simple...if it always clicked the very first time...and more importantly...BOTH DID SOMETHING ABOUT IT!!

I admit it...I DREAM of Love..almost every second...every minute...And i find it to be perfect...mainly because its a picture of something i would and always want to have...And of course, Life is different in it...it is good...nice...heart warming...
Dont ask me whom i dream of...coz its not a girl i dream of...its love...the girl...will eventually follow someday...
:-)

amol: Why just ppl cant live a simple practicle life than complicated dreamy life
Prasad: coz we always try to turn our dreams into reality
amol: thats where we make our life miserable
Prasad: for some ppl...its the way to live...
amol: the dream u r talking about is about ur passion to be something
not impossible things...and then u make other ppls lives miserable
Prasad: but thats wat....ur dreams are abt YOU...they were never abt others!
amol: so while pursuing that dream we effect other ppls lives
Prasad: maybe...little realising that even your life is gettin affected
:)

Monday, December 22, 2008

something i want...but something i dont expect...

I think the biggest thing about old friendship is that it just gets crisper and crisper with time...
Some of the friends you made...can never be let gone of...no matter what happens....things have to get back to normal...as if nothing happened...
That exactly shows the purity of that relationship...and most importantly...how much you and the other person/people value the pure bond you share...

It cant be let gone of ever...cant be replaced...and thats the bottom line!

I was telling a friend the other day about how i have realised the kind of person i am...and about how i can genuinely care for some people...maybe do things out of my way...
I only do things that come naturally to me...and maybe its because thats the way i am...i wont do anything out of force or compulsion...so...whatever happens...its normal..and natural...

I will not change the person that i am...i just cannot do that....but definitely....now...i have become careful...and practical to some extent...

I wanna do many things...but i stop myself from doing it....somewhere its about how people with take it...and what will the consequences be...about whether or not they deserve that much of importance in my life...

I believe strongly now...that if things have to happen....if friendships are to be immortal...if love has to last....it happpens naturally...and somehow...it is destined to be...

I have had some really good time in the past few days...memories and moments i will cherish for life...

A silent conversation...a funny story...bits of paper joining lives...A dark night...a look that says it all...a moment to cry it all out...a caring word that changes everything...close yet so distant...


...and i think its because i have learnt to let go...and not hold on to things...expecting they will materialize and be a part of my life...but doing what is to be done...and what you feel like doing...

Learn to give share and care selflessly...it might not return the same from the same source...but it will help another part of your life...
sometimes...where more is needed...

When you really want something,have the courage to walk away from it...

Thursday, December 18, 2008

One month blog!

Its been exactly one month since I last blogged...not that i had nothing to write about...but i just thought what it would be like to put a whole months thoughts into one single post...so..yeah...this post might come across as a bit distorted...irrelevant situations put together maybe...

This month has been good...and a lot of memories created which will last for long...

I dont understand why they have internal exams in MBA....everything is just a formality...and the marks are favoured...on the basis of where you rank in the books of the professors...
MBA is not about marks...not about theory...not about how good you wrote an answer..and if they do realise this...and why dont they do something about it!
A serious pattern change i say...no exams plzz...
I look at the 74% i scored...and it just doesnt mean anything to me...primarily coz i know i havnt taken much efforts to get...
but hey...im not complaining...whatever more you get is yours to keep right! ;-)

The exams came and went really fast...and somewhere i think everyone in the class knew this was an unofficial end to MBA...the last sem is just a formality really...hardly matters...
I havent really attached myself to MBA...so its a serious doubt if i will miss the place...the course...the people...?
Maybe a few people...i really dont know...

Had taken a break to Goa with a few friends some days ago....somewhere needed to be away for a while...
As amazing as the time spent was...it gave me a chance to actually relaise what i have always wanted...people i would like to be around...people i miss...and who really matter to me...

I think the major problem in your life is that there are certain things which you would like to avoid and get away from...and then there are those certain things which you want to keep close but cant for some unknown reason...the essence of life i think...is to blend these two things...
Being where YOU want to be...and what YOU want to do...rather than to bother about how these things (which hardly matter anyways!) will impact your life...
Live in a way that will impact situations around instead...create a world for yourself rather than trying to everytime adjust yourself to something that doesnt seem like a place you should be at...


Not every time in an interview does the Interviewer say this to you...
"You know apart from the profile we are looking for....whatever be the result of this interview...i would first like to compliment you and your parents for the values they have brought you up with..."

That felt really nicee...Called up my Mom and Dad and told them...somewhere...i am glad i could make them proud somehow...
That day was I think the start of a new positive stride in my life...

The way I see it...If i have not done anything wrong till now...and if i have been true...Nothing bad can happen...eventually...everything will be alright...and that feeling hasnt gone since that day...that smile hasnt gone since that day...
You fret about the past...about things that shouldnt have happened....but its nice to face the future with that smile on the face...

Me and a friend were having this conversation about how people should keep things the way they are...and not spoil the relationship that you share with the person at any cost..
like..If you are a friend...keep being a friend...dont spoil it by saying you are in love with that person...it will just make things uncomfortable...and eventually will lead to a break in the friendship because things just got irritating for the person...too much than he/she could take...
I dont completely agree to that...i mean...if that is what is to be done...how else will commitments be formed...Somewhere...when people meet...you always know what kind of relationship you want with that person...denying it...and avoiding it is just foolish and unfair i think...
And if it really makes things uncomfortable...the freindship/relationship was never meant to be...

I was thinking about all the people i know in and around me...and what they mean to be..and i was surprised about how I really feel for some people now...some relationships in life change...but in some cases...the core always remains...no matter what...and it happens naturally...

You need to laugh more. Life is filled with too many problems, to not laugh every day. ... We need to have a sense of humor going into this because it's too tough without it.
Coz sometimes...even though you know how its gonna end...doesnt mean you cant enjoy the ride...

I am loving the month so far...more things to write about...in the posts to come...

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