Monday, June 02, 2008

A post that doesnt really make sense....

I dont understand sometimes...I have seen relationships of two types...


In the first type...people commit each other considering all possibilities...you know...the usual...security...long lastingness...compatibility to the fullest...no family problems...
The second one...is the one which just happens...there may or may not be security...this one just leads its own way...


I feel...even though i have seen both types NOT working for people...what really is important is just one thing...and i tell this to all my friends who have second thoughts about whether their relationship will work or not...

Its simple...
"Look 5 years from now...do you think you can be the same with this person even if everything...(and i mean EVERYTHING that the world has to offer) around changes...
Be with him the same way...feel the same way..."

Most of the times the answer is..."How can i say that right now...I dont know..."

There you go...
"If you dont know it after being with the person for soo long...either dont think about it...or still if you cant help the second thoughts...you already know your answer"

Thunder only happens when it's raining.
Players only love you when they're playing.
(same is the case the other way)
Say... Women... they will come and they will go.
When the rain washes you clean... you'll know.
~ Stevie Nicks ~

I dont know if i am entitled to conclude such things about a relationship because i have never been in one still...but i just feel that when you are with a person...some things will never change about him/her....and those are the things that decide if you will be with him/her... Circumstances will just decide whether you can be with the person or not...the "things that will never change" will decide whether you will feel the same for the person or no.
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