Friday, October 22, 2004

FOOLISH LOVE?

I have tried n tried and never understood 'love' and i hardly think i ever will.....

Take this example....
I have a friend...i must admit i have been acquainted with his ''love story'' just a few days back but of wat i have known i cant help thinkin abt his case...
The guy was interested in a gal during his junior college days...As anyone else he asked her out by the end of the year and like most of the 'evil' hearting breaking gals out there....she refused...
The guy has been maintaining contact with the gal though...You know...sendin mails..phone calls n all that crap....both being in different branches academically...
Now i dont know how deep were his feelings for the gal...but lately news was heard that the gal got engaged n was planning a wedding soon...
The guy...after knowing this has still maintained his contacts with her...still the same as before...
The problem here is....the gals friends are questioning on him being completely foolish n they...well...i think..make fun of his ' trying to keep in touch' atittude.
The guy...sensible n smart that he is....i m assured n satisfied knows that he has absolutely no chance with the gal...but i dont think there is anything wrong with him trying to keep the friendship alive between the two...
Now the prob here is...how is the gal taking this???
Is she just enjoying the attention she is getting???playing with the guys heart only to throw it away in a month or two??
Or does she frm her side too wants a friendship without any past hassles......
From the friends of the gals....this is hardly the conclusion i am drawing....again....this is just my intrpretation....

From the whole story....
I am forced to think on only one thing....is this guy being FOOLISH or being the most practical person in such a situation??
Afterall...its not easy to label ur love 'FRIENDSHIP' and carry it forever....
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